Comments for When I Grow Up...

Comment on Living on Dreams: Issa Rae by j'marie

j'marie — Thu, 17 Mar 2011 19:45:48 +0000

right on! thank you for wanting to diversify our roles in film! I’m so sick of the same ‘ol stories. give me a break – the black experience in this country is so much more. (love the awk blk girl series!!!)

ps where can be buy those shirts tho?

Comment on Throwback Thursdays: Save PBS! by Marly Mar

Marly Mar — Sun, 13 Mar 2011 01:42:46 +0000

those were all my shows!! pbs needs to be around for my babies! shame on congress. they just stay doing the dumbness. viva pbs!

Comment on Mind Sex by Sana

Sana — Thu, 10 Mar 2011 14:25:08 +0000

You just brought sexy back. #nerdlove

Comment on Let’s talk about sex, Mom. by Jenny

Jenny — Thu, 03 Mar 2011 06:03:06 +0000

I have so much to say….I don’t even know where to begin! lol…However, I have to go to sleep, but I will be back tomorrow. Excellent post, can’t wait to see the full documentary.

Comment on Let’s talk about sex, Mom. by Shirley

Shirley — Wed, 02 Mar 2011 18:37:47 +0000

What is interesting is that I never got “the talk”. All I ever receieved was that the moment men get the “p****” (mommy’s words, not mine lol) they are done with you. Hearing that come from a woman’s mouth who is adamant about respecting yourself, I just could not shake it. Therefore, for the most part, I have seen my vagina as being an additional power to my being.

As far as what I would say to my daughters, I know I will talk with them but be more of the ears in the conversation to simply know what their thoughts are. I have friends who are breaking into their adulthood but have been active for years and they still believe talking about their sexual relations and enjoyment as being “nasty”. I never could quite understand it. We have sex. We enjoy it and we continue to do it. What is nasty about that?

I just know that I want my children to understand sex and not believe their desires for it is strange or dirty. I strongly believe that since we do not talk about it causes unneccesary confusion and shame.

Comment on Throwback Thursdays: “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun!” Playlist by Flo

Flo — Tue, 22 Feb 2011 03:01:51 +0000

Hella late, but LOVES IT!!!

Comment on Throwback Thursday: Brandy’s Never Say Never Album by Jenny

Jenny — Sun, 30 Jan 2011 23:37:41 +0000

Man, I was all over this! lol, Still love B

lmao @ Flo, she sure did

Comment on Living on Dreams: DJ Brina Payne by DJ Brina Payne on Living The Dream | DJ Brina Payne

DJ Brina Payne on Living The Dream | DJ Brina Payne — Wed, 26 Jan 2011 14:58:49 +0000

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Comment on Throwback Thursdays: “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun!” Playlist by Jenny

Jenny — Mon, 17 Jan 2011 23:21:20 +0000

Love this!! Thank you! You stay puttin’ me on Kat, lol

Comment on Throwback Thursdays: “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun!” Playlist by Marly Mar

Marly Mar — Tue, 11 Jan 2011 16:07:21 +0000

oh, i love the pix too.