Category Back in the Day When I was Young(er)

Throwback Thursdays: Save PBS!

Having parents that worked a lot of hours, television played a large part in keeping us occupied. In 4th and 5th grade, I would let myself in from school, fix a snack and watch my shows until my Mom or Dad came home. And back then, PBS was the most watched channel in our household.

With programming that included Shining Time Station, Ghostwriter, Where in the World is Carmen Sandiego and Square One, PBS offered hours of educational and entertaining parental approved television. Also, people like Bob Villa, Julia Childs, Bob Ross and Mister Rogers became part of our family.

Let’s talk about sex, Mom.

Unfortunately, this all-too-common upbringing has caused Black and Brown women to be mute about and ashamed of their sexual wants, needs, and desires. Many of us grow up thinking that sex is something that happens to us, instead of an act that we can choose when, how and with who we want to do it. We allow boys/men to define what our sexuality feels and looks like, believing that they have more knowledge about our bodies than we do.

Throwback Thursdays: Suede + Honey

Sending love + gratitude to Honey’s original founders, Joicelyn Dingle and Kierna Mayo and Suede’s founding editor-in-chief, Suzanne Boyd. Thank you for truly seeing girls like me and allowing us to see ourselves.